‘Coffee and Conversation’ in Wilton Manors Offers LGBTQ+ Seniors More Than Just a Cup of Joe

Round about every Tuesday in Wilton Manors, there arises a unique kind of warmth at The Pride Center at Equality Park. It is not just the coffee; the people, the stories, and the sense of belonging that the room is filled with create that warmth. The get-together that happens weekly, known as “Coffee and Conversation,” has become a favorite routine of LGBTQ+ seniors in Broward County, giving them not only amicable talks. For a large number, it’s a life preserver.

These are not the first of the “Coffee and Conversation” gatherings that Douglas Kent has been to. It’s not only the caffeine for him, it’s the community. “Everyone is unique, and everyone has a story,” he remarked, reminding how this environment also validates individual paths. These at times cover a period where members of this community constantly had to hide their pride since it was dangerous or illegal to be out and proud.

Kent had those days in mind. “You had to be discreet,” he admitted. “There was discrimination, harassment – even the risk of losing your job just for being yourself.” The strength of the space lies in the fact that no one has to explain who they are. No one has to come out again. It’s merely a platform to be visible and audible without fear or judgment.

“Coffee and Conversation” is not only a community-run program but also one that is specifically targeted towards so-called “active agers” – older LGBTQ+ individuals who are still characterized by their vibrancy, engagement, and eagerness to socialize. And socialize they do.

He tells everyone what a skillful means the gathering is, Phil Prentice, now 95. “In my elder years, I don’t normally frequent bars,” he joked. “This was practically the only place where I could still get in touch with others and be updated” His remark is seconded by countless other people who see this event as a resource for strengthening connections especially when being retired can make one feel cut off from society.

In reality, it is the Pride Center which boldly states that this is indeed the largest gathering of its kind in the country and there is definitely nothing wrong with the Pride Center. The Pride Center, as represented by Robert Boo, CEO, “Here they can meet completely queer people for the very first time in their lives.” With the social issues of older adults being alone and the lack of belongingness that is more prevalent among the LGBTQ+ community, this is the place to find it.

Yet, “Coffee and Conversation” goes beyond mere conversations and interactions. It is also a gateway for much-needed services and resources. Besides, through the sharing of information by the center and the local partners, the attendees get to know what is ongoing in the society like things to deal with the healthcare, housing, local schools.

For the past 13 years, local resident Saalik Cuevas has been participating in the regular meetings and, according to him, this has become his second family. In a move from New York, he now lives in Florida and has received an outpour of welcome from the local community. “I feel really glad we still chose a place that provides opportunities like this,” he said. “In no way is this just a get-together – it speaks for the people like us.”

In a world not wholly supportive of their presence, LGBTQ+ elders, “Coffee and Conversation” is not only filling cups but also hearts, therefore.